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	<title>Comments on: On Social Dynamics</title>
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		<title>By: Xian</title>
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		<description>Great read Fio..

I joined around the time you describe as &quot;Attracting prospective members was incredibly hard &quot;
I was in Cairdeas at the time. I had been with many players from our EQ guild for many many years. The guild was in its dying throws. The leader had left a lot of old school players had left and the new mood was recruit asshats instead of working with long time members wanting to step up. I joined a Shadow Labs &quot;pug&quot; with Warlock Bob and I think it may have been Shar and Di and some other pugged hunter. Not far into the run Bob spoke up and said to the hunter &quot;I&#039;m kicking you out. The mobs I assign you to trap spend more time beating on the shammy healer than trapped&quot;.He brought in another AC member and the atmosphere of the group gave me a glimpse of the spirit of the guild. It appealed a lot to me as it was just like my old favorite guilds were. AC and at one time Cairdeas and from EQ Guardians of light all do/did something that is VERY hard to do long term. That is a successful family style raiding guild. Normally you have to choose Hardcore raiding or Family guild. To be successful on content and to hold a guild together that manages both usually doesn&#039;t last long. I am thankful to have found this new home</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great read Fio..</p>
<p>I joined around the time you describe as &#8220;Attracting prospective members was incredibly hard &#8221;<br />
I was in Cairdeas at the time. I had been with many players from our EQ guild for many many years. The guild was in its dying throws. The leader had left a lot of old school players had left and the new mood was recruit asshats instead of working with long time members wanting to step up. I joined a Shadow Labs &#8220;pug&#8221; with Warlock Bob and I think it may have been Shar and Di and some other pugged hunter. Not far into the run Bob spoke up and said to the hunter &#8220;I&#8217;m kicking you out. The mobs I assign you to trap spend more time beating on the shammy healer than trapped&#8221;.He brought in another AC member and the atmosphere of the group gave me a glimpse of the spirit of the guild. It appealed a lot to me as it was just like my old favorite guilds were. AC and at one time Cairdeas and from EQ Guardians of light all do/did something that is VERY hard to do long term. That is a successful family style raiding guild. Normally you have to choose Hardcore raiding or Family guild. To be successful on content and to hold a guild together that manages both usually doesn&#8217;t last long. I am thankful to have found this new home</p>
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